On the 22nd I woke up
and prayed, but I didn’t leave my apartment until 740. I’m not eating breakfast
anymore because I need my wheatbix to last until I can go to town to get more
groceries. I went and took temperature. Then I did my needs assessment that is
due the 31st of July. Today, a deaf lady came in. She thought I was
a doctor. It was really challenging because I don’t speak the language to begin
with and haven’t had to sign ever. The clerk really helped out a lot though,
even though he doesn’t know sign language. After she was done seeing the nurse,
she came back and begged me for money to drink. The clerk told her no. Lunch
was wheatbix again. Oh, this was the first day of National Immunization Days.
Unfortunately, I haven’t been able to help much because we have so many people
at the clinic. I just sat around ready and waiting to help. I went home around
6pm. My favorite host aunt had a beautiful little table made for me to eat on
around the fire! I was so surprised! It is beautiful! It’s very special to me!
I played UNO with BH and two little host brothers of mine. I won most of the
time, but one of the little boys won too! BH, although he was supposed to be
translating my instructions, he kept telling the boy next to him the wrong
things on purpose when the moves didn’t favor him. It was a little annoying,
but kind of funny because he and I kept arguing against each other and telling
the boy what to play. After UNO, I went to my room and listened to Glee and
played Hearts on my computer.
I had a bad dream this night
unfortunately. The morning of the 23rd was very challenging
personally. My dad was a HUGE help. I’m going through more personal
change/growth than I have ever gone through before. I’m so happy for it, and I
wouldn’t have it any other way, but it is SO hard. I’m having people issues
that I never had on top of numerous other things. My dad gave me
several scriptures. One said “He who began a good work in you, CJ, will be
faithful to bring it to perfect completion.” Also, Isaiah 41:10-“So do not
fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will
strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
The last one was Psalm 62:5-8, 11-12-“Find Rest, O my Soul, in God alone; my
hope comes from Him. He alone is my rock and salvation; he is my fortress, I
will not be shaken. My salvation and my honor depend on God. He is my mighty
rock, my refuge. Trust in Him at all times, O people; pour out your hearts to
him, for God is our refuge…One thing God has spoken, two things have I heard:
that you, oh God, are strong, and that you, oh Lord, are loving.” The morning
was very hard, as I said. I am open for the first time to certain types of
change if it is for the better and because God desires it, not because others
desire it. I need a discerning heart to know what to do. One huge area of
growth is that I haven’t gotten depressed like I normally would. Yes, I was
sad, but I wasn’t thinking stupid/irrational thoughts. That’s huge for me. I
sat outside with the nurses as we had NIDs all day. One of the nurses gave me
some stuff out of her lunch pack which was nice. I watched some of my Men’s
Chorale videos later. They were so uplifting and I facebooked my choir director
and president from college. Today’s Devotion was called Road Construction and
was about how after the winter, the road has to be destroyed to be made better.
The devotion said that it might seem that everything familiar is being
destroyed, but God is not destroying; he is building a better way. We can be
confident that the end result will be smoother relationships with others and
closer relationship with him. This was timed so perfectly and it was really
encouraging. I went home at six and had Mahangu for dinner. I met two guys from
Liina’s property many kilometers East. I went to my room and watched Big Bang
Theory and called another PCV at 8. I love talking to her. It’s always encouraging.
I went to bed around 920.
I had a better quiet/prayer time
this morning, the 24th. During my quiet time, I received an
amazingly, perfectly timed encouragement. Two of my closest friends messaged me
saying they were thinking of me; hope I’m doing well; and that they love me. It
gave me perspective on some of my people issues here that I had forgotten. I
didn’t feel like going anywhere but into my office to be myself, but I was
proud that I went out to NIDs nearly all day. One thing I need to mention is
that it is really challenging at the clinic because all the other people are
speaking in Rukwangali and they laugh sooooo much. It sucks to be left out of
the joke. I went home and watched some episodes of 24 and practiced Arabic.
Then I ate dinner. I am getting really shaky, sweaty, and dizzy because I have
been eating very little (and yes, I’m going to remedy the problem this
weekend). I went into my hut early and watched some more 24.
This was just another NID day.
There isn’t much to tell. I was going to go see a friend later in the day, but
was busy. I was very happy that a PCV friend is letting me use her hiking
backpack for Reconnect! I journaled/blogged for a while. I went home around 6. I
had a very revealing conversation with my dad about struggles that he and I
have in common. I had no idea about the similar issues. I was so hungry that I
ate a bunch of pure sugar because I was shaking so much. My favorite Aunt was
there. I love it when she’s there because she likes to talk to me. Then, I
played UNO with 7 of my family members while others watched! It was a great picture
to see all of us under a hut, playing UNO on a little wooden table. They loved
it. They are especially amazed and fascinated by my shuffling and bridging. I’ve
also learned so more Rukwangali words! I went to my room around 8 and watched
24. Also, my brother sent me an amazingly touching message on facebook that
caught me entirely off guard. It meant a lot, especially with what I’m going through
here. Sometimes it’s hard to keep in perspective that there are many people who
care for me, even if I’m having issues here.
The 26th was a good,
but hard day. I went to the clinic but I kept forgetting stuff. Then I walked
to school. I had to teach lifeskills classes with only a few minutes notice.
I decided to use the time to do some stuff for my needs assessment. The first
session did not go well, but the second session was much better. However, we just
ran out of time. We went to tea break at 940. I asked if I could buy some of
the food they usually have and they were like “why would you need to pay?” I told them how in America,
you have to pay your fair share. They cut me off saying “This is not America. You’re
in Africa. We are a different culture.” I have been amazed constantly by how
generous Namibians are, even the people that have very little. It is a lesson I
need/want to learn. I talked to the lifeskills teacher about plans for lessons
I could teach the next week and the next term. Then, we discussed club ideas.
In the middle of the conversation I got an sms from a friend, and the subject was not fun to hear, but I'm glad she told me. I am so proud of how I have
grown because I fought so hard to keep from being depressed and letting it ruin
my day. It was pretty awful, but I kept praying, thinking of encouraging
scripture, and other quotes that have helped me. I was proud that I was able to
go to the next class and have a good session with the learners. I had asked God
before the session to encourage me, and teaching the class did that for me. School
got out and I wait awhile for a ride to town. MS, my teacher friend, rode with
me. He continued the trend of generosity by buying me my favorite cookie and a
Fanta. The ride was okay; I just read news stories on my phone. I’ve really
been into reading news on my phone lately. I went and bought food at Pick n’
Pay. I was so proud that I didn’t gorge myself like I usually do! There were a
few other PCVs in the office. I just did some computer stuff. I had a really
good talk with one of the other PCVs about my issues here. I walked back to my
lodging with two other PCVs around 630. I got a ton of new movies/tv shows. I
ate salad, but I had Peanut Butter sandwiches later. We talked for a bit, and
then I went to my room and watched some TV. Then I went to bed.