The Value of Amazing Parents

This journey has already been a massive growing experience in ways that I never imagined, and thus, not all my blogs will be just about what is happening in Namibia, but also random topics or introspective moments. Since I have the time, and the desire to write, I want to blog about my parents and what they have meant, and continue to mean to me. My parents are amazing. We still have issues here and there, but they are the most important people in my life. My mom is my best friend and my dad and I are getting closer and closer. They show their love differently, but it’s amazing to have two different avenues of love. My dad is amazing at taking care of logistical/practical issues and making sure I’m taken care of (student loans, bank issues, etc.). I feel much less stressed because of his care. 

My mom is amazing, and as my best friend, she knows everything about me. She wrote me letter #17 a few days ago. Unfortunately, I have only gotten four or five of the 11 letters she sent me while in training. The good news is that I have gotten all of the letters since I have changed addresses to my permanent address at the clinic. My mom always knows what to say to make me feel better. I don’t think talking to her as ever failed me once. My dad comforts me by providing invaluable wisdom that I really respect, love, and need. He’s definitely helped me here in Namibia. My parents also have specific experience with living in other countries. They were missionaries for many years and have lived in India, the Netherlands, Afghanistan, Ecuador, and many others I don’t remember. They know how hard it is to be away. I appreciate the true empathy. Because of God, them, my personality, and my preparations before Peace Corps, I know I WILL make it through the entire two years and grow to be the man I want to be.

It’s amazing how my parents cheer me up when I am down. They have done so a few times since I have been here in Namibia. I haven’t been down really at all, but even when I’m not down, they make my mood even better. It helps me remember that, whatever happens, I have God, and God has put these two wonderful people in my life. They are beyond value to me. It will be quite difficult to not see them, and my brother, for two years and possibly much longer depending on what I do after Peace Corps. I do realize that these next two years, especially, are meant for me to get closer to God and Jesus Christ because He is all I need. But I am so thankful for my parents.